Family and Friendship

Nama               : Etika Septiawati

NPM               : 22212569

Kelas               : 3EB23

The people that have had influence on me are the most important humans beings, my family. My family consists of father, mather, sister’s, brother, nephew, niece etc. They are important because they helped in my development. Also, they gave me the things that I needed to grow up in the moment that I needed and they still gave me everything that I needed to become somebody in the future. Among these things is the education that I have received all in my life, my basic needs like food, clothes, medicine, a place to live, and the most important thing, the love.

Love is something that everyone knows about whether is receiving love or giving love. It is a feeling that no human being can live without, my family feels love is a big issue. I my life time there were situations that arose that I would not have made it through without my family. Not everyone feels the same way, in some families loved ones are judged on their actions, and are not shown love when they need it the most.

To me family means love, friendship, and support. Like for example, by being there when I needed somebody to talk to and giving me speeches when I do something wrong. Also, they care for me when I am sick and they give me the necessary things to get better. They teach me good values like how to behave, to respect other people, and to share with other people. Sometimes they push me in certain directions and have high expectations for me, but now I really appreciate everything they have taught me. I understand why they do certain things and it is because my parents want the best for me. On certain occasions I get mad, but later appreciate their words of wisdom and understand. My parents are wonderful.

            Bisides, there area also my friends who is importand for me. People who around the world is not independent individual. So we need make friends, thereby enlarging our social circle, never feeling lonely. However friends who mislead us bring a baneful influence, thereby enlargeing our social circle. Friendship is indispensable to people’s life.

Knowing how valuable friendship is , we should be very careful in our choice of a friend. Firstly, We must choose someone who has a good character, whose actions are good and who shows kind-heartedness. Secondly, should avoid those shallow people who change in the face of adversity or misfortune. More special , A true friend does not always agree with his friends,nor does he always disagree.He accepts what is reasonable and opposes what is unreasonable. Therefore the duty of a friend is to spreak frankly. So, A true friend can always be trusted, loved and respected. The most important thing is that a friend always understands you. A true friend does not always agree with his friends,nor does he always disagree.

In conclusion families made the difference in many of the situations that life gives you and without them you would be unable to give the love and support to your children need which they need to become mature and responsible adults. And friendship is one of the greatest pleasures that people can enjoy. It is very difficult to find a better definition of friendship. A true friend can really find pleasure in our joy and share sorrow in our grief. Thanks to my family and my friends today I can said all of these things to other people.